Sister cancels family New Year's Eve Party at her house after her sister's 4 kids mix toilet water and dinner on Christmas: 'These kids are pulling out toilet water from the bathroom and splashing it on the floor'

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Emmy Pratt • Senior Editor
Dec 29, 2024 1:00 PM EST

There is a large contingent of parents who want to be their kids' best friends. They might have had kids young and still feel like teenagers, or they might desperately want a close relationship with their kids that they never had with their parents. Whatever the case may be, being your child's best friend nearly always creates a monster. Your kid shouldn't be trembling at the thought of displeasing you, but they also should be reasonably afraid of getting in trouble. If they think they can do whatever and you'll laugh along as if you're besties, they will do whatever they want and other people will suffer the consequences of that. Bad parenting impacts not only the kids but also every single person those kids interact with. The kids in this story ruined Christmas dinner, all because their mother was so amused by their gross antics that she forgot she needed to parent them. 

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    AITAH For cancelling NYE at my house after the Christmas we just had ?
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    This year as a family we decided that I (30M) would host NYE for my family which includes my mom, dad, sister (35F) and my other sister (33F), both of their husbands and 5 kids ages 5,6,8,9,11. And my sister who is 33 would host Christmas.
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    Well this year Christmas was a disaster imo. We arrive at her house around 2pm on Wednesday and for the most part everything is normal, we sona second round of presents, play some board games, and start to get ready for dinner. Now my
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    sister is an actress (community theater, she is actually a barista) and apparently she is trying to let her children 8/9/11 act to their heart desire. Apparently, their favorite show is that out of control Netflix show "I Think You Should Leave with Tim Robinson".
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    So right before dinner time the three kids start loudly acting out the sketches from the show. First they do the one with the two guys who do the pranks on the toilets. So these three kids are
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    jumping and screaming and pulling out toilet water from the bathroom and splashing it on the floor. I think this is insane and so do my parents. But my sister is encouraging it.
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    Next it gets even worse, one of them starts to shovel food into their mouths just screaming "WHERE IS ALL THE FOOD GOING! WHO IS EATING ALL THE FOOD!" at this point there is food everywhere and dinner is ruined. The only people laughing are my sister and the kids.
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    Since all the food is thrown about and their is toilet water on the rest of it, we end up having to order pizza. The holiday was ruined. She says this is hilarious. And she is trying to get them to act like this more and more to make a career out of comedy.
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    I tell my sister at this point NYE is going to be adults only, or she and her "comedy troupe" can't come. She freaks out and says I'm being insane.
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    I truly just don't want my house ruined. AITAH for making this couch for Nye?
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    ThaddeusGriffin_ NTA. I wouldn't have your sister and her kids in my house either.
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    bosbuddy OP Right. I just know there are going to try for second performance a
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    mandalinajones This sounds like my worst nightmare... definitely NTA.
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    lapsteelguitar Lay down the law: "this behavior will not be tolerated at my house. Ever. And I will not come to your house to experience this behavior." Sit back and watch the fireworks. ΝΤΑ
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    bosbuddy OP Haha but then she will be upset. And maybe that would be worse. But then again, I wouldn't be theeated with toilet food
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    Heeler_Haven She deserves to be upset. If she's old enough to have multiple children old enough to do this, then she's old enough to finally learn that actions (and inactions) have consequences. The whole family will benefit from this.....
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    Eli_1988 So what? Are you and the rest of your family not upset at the experience during Christmas? Why does her being upset matter so much to everyone who had a f ed up christmas because of her families behavior?
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    Being upset is a normal part of life and is typically a learning experience. Here your sister should have learned that he unruly children f ed up christmas and by extension new years because of their unsociable behavior.
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    You have learned not to have her kids at an event because your sister hasn't learned sh. If anyone is sad about their exclusion you can tell them to host your sis and her kids for new years then.
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    Kenobi-Kryze NTA. Not only is that behavior insane but your sister encourages it. I wouldn't trust them in my home at any time. What do your parents and other sibling think?
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    bosbuddy OP They were also all disgusted. I think that show is hilarious. But living it is a nightmare
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    Born-Hat-8515 NTA. I think your sister is missing that it is a television show. It's probably not dirty toilet water on the show. If there is food everywhere, it's on a set or there are assistants to clean up. It's not so funny in real life with no movie magic. Your sister needs to grow up.
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    adjudicateu Yeah, no. Go out on NYE in case they come over anyway.
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    bosbuddy OP Haha I love this. Just change the locks and leave !
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    Bonnm42 Wait was this the Sister that was hosting? If it's the other Sister she must be P ED. NTA I would not want them at my house. I would tell your Sister "if you want to prepare them for a career in comedy, you should probably teach them that real life is not like TikTok. They may think it's funny but others may not.. and may not want to invite then to things anymore."
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    bosbuddy OP It was the sister who was hosting house
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    Bonnm42 That's good, at least her kids didn't pour bathroom water on someone else's bathroom floor
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